Consider that which is ultimately beneficial as truly conductive to happiness
A young man who was considering marriage to some girl asked Shri Maharaj, "Will my family life be a happy one if I marry this girl?" ShriMaharaj replied, "All my life I have been saying that family life is basically never conducive to happiness. How then can I say that your family life will be a happy one? But it is for sure that if you were to marry this girl, your family life will be of help in attainment of God.
