Reminiscences

A doctor asked, 'Maharaj, may I practise performing ajapajapa* ? How is that japa performed?' Upon this ShriMaharaj said, "Ajapajapa is not to be 'performed', it 'takes place¹ spontaneously. Saints are always in ajapajapa. You know how blood circulates effortlessly in the body .Ajapajapa goes on in the same way; japa takesplace throughout the body."

* Ajapajapa -    repeating nama where there is no formal performance

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Aradhana of Sri Sadguru Brahmachaithanya Maharaj - invitation

Reminiscences

A well - educated, only son of a devotee had secured a good job. He was to be married. The devotee asked ShriMaharaj, 'I have no experience in arranging marriages. Please tell me how to choose a daughter - in - law.' ShriMaharaj promptly said, 'Accept the girl whom all three of you like at first sight. Do not get into any further criti­cal examination.' After advising thus ShriMaharaj further added, 'In my opinion marriage of a son is of a more diffi­cult nature than that of a daughter. The effect of a daughter's marriage is felt at her in - laws.' The effect of a son's marriage is felt in one's home. If everyone at home behaves with a sentiment that he should mind and take care of others, comfort, and contentment will prevail . Also, the elders should act in the manner of elders, and young­sters should act in the free manner of youngsters. There­after, what scope can exist for arising of misunderstand­ings?'

Reminiscences

ShriMaharaj used to tell his followers, "Take refuge in Me." A sadhaka who had stayed with him for several years dedicatedly asked him, "Maharaj, what is the true sense of Take refuge in Me?"  Upon this ShriMaharaj said "Here, Me refers to God. To take refuge in Him means to surren­der to Him; that is, mentally to offer oneself to Him. To offer oneself is to merge one's will with His will. To merge will means to look upon Him as the controller of one's life, For this, one should conduct oneself the way He likes. To do one's duty in domestic life and practise namasmarana, is what He likes."

Reminiscences

A young man from another village met ShriMaharaj. He said to him whatever was to be said, accepted prasad, and returned. Later he remembered that his father had  told him to convey his salutation of regard to ShriMaharaj, and he had forgotten to convey that. Next time he met ShriMaharaj, he said, "Maharaj, please forgive me. Last time I forgot to convey my father's salutation to you.". Upon this ShriMaharaj promptly said, "Convey my blessings to him'; and added in a low voice, "What is the charm in conveying a salutation to him, whom it does not reach the very moment it is spoken ?"

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ShriMaharaj casually asked one teacher, ' Is there a shrine of a Muslim saint near your school?' The teacher said, ' Yes.' ShriMaharaj further said, " Balwantrao Ghanekar, who had studied at the same institution, was once asked the same question. His answer was, ' I do not know'' ' But, 1 said, ' everybody says so.' Balwantrao re­plied, ' Maybe it's so, but I used to go straight to the class,and when school was over, I returned home. I never rambled idly nor aimlessly.' I liked this reply, for the reason that it shows how single - mindedly one should                            pursue one's Sadhana ."

Reminiscences

One doctor asked, "The mental perturbation of every person that visits him becomes known to a saint. How does it happen ?' ShriMaharaj replied, "For this to hap­pen one's mind has to become holy and subtle. You know by using a thermometer what temperature a patient has. But a thermometer never gets a temperature. Likewise saints have passed beyond being perturbed, and so they come to know correctly the perturbation of another